Some, if not all, “good friends” and self-help gurus want you to ask yourself the questions about the arrangement to self-change.
“What Makes You keep on going?” and similar questions like these you already asked yourself, not much help from the outside if they only guide you the way you already tried.
The starting point should be if it is necessary for you to change and why you think it is.
As we try to do different things in life, a number of fails will grow exponentially over time, making us think we are a failure, but… are you a failure for real?
Rethink yourself and analyze your best deeds in life, I am sure you have experienced someone thanking you for what you did to someone or something, or even someone impressed with any skill you are not giving much importance to.
Be only what you can be, not everything you think you want to be, that will always lead you to problems and hitting wall after wall because you are not adapting the situation to you, you are adapting to the situation itself, and that is half way to losing your true self.
Present times and circumstances come and go faster and faster, analyzing intriguing moments and use it to prepare yourself for the reaction of what runs into you from all around the world is the best positive outcome we can get and takes you out of the fantasy of being “different” than what you really are.
We are all extraordinary since we are not equal in any way. The similarities end when you reach someone’s soul, the true, honest self, no masks, no games. Those are the people you will want to surround yourself with, never bring to your life circle people that deprive you, or drive you away from your vision, we already have a hard time in keeping the focus on what we should pursuit.
Start being the best friend, sister, mother or father you can be, you can accomplish anything without trouble when the focus is on the little things… for us… but big for those who receive it. We will always grow upon the values other give to us, too difficult to keep self-growing if you don’t give a reason for the world around you to recognize your efforts and credit you for that.
Regardless of your state of mind, always get down to business about your emotions, take over, take control, stop smiling to make anyone feel better, stop the fake nice person when you are feeling alone around them. Use your emotions and feeling to your advantage, better lose those who make you waste your time than making them assume they are great and you love them, kick those moments away, they suck your energy and in the end, it’s not worth it.
Recognizing where we are going doesn’t need a special insight, but if you have a feeling that you are on the right track and getting somewhere, that is when you should find consistency and push on the premise of understanding that power deep inside and tune your instincts and gaze on the talent that shields you from negative energies.
Your memory will be sufficient to drive your spirit forward, be innovative step by step.
Ponder the things that hurt you psychologically, be positive and rehearse the things that might hurt you in the past and how you should have to react to it, find your peace and remain positively strong, new occasions will bring you new experiences, don’t fear the unknown. If needed, just let it go, speculating if you can achieve or win for a considerable amount of time means you are already wasting your time, restraining yourself to someone else’s will.
Be inspired by all things life, be happy, receive and accept it as a blessing, create yourself in your image, be what the world should be around you and the universe will give it back. Bliss happens, chase the vision!